Kungani ngivame ukulahlekelwa esikhundleni sokuthanda? Uma ukhuluma ngohwebo, kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani inkontileka noma uchungechunge lwezinkontileka lungahamba kabi futhi lulimaze umhwebi. Izici ezisebenzayo zihlukaniswe ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Okuqukethwe kungahlanganisa isimo sengqondo somthengisi, ulwazi abalutholayo, ulwazi lwabo, nezindlela. Izici zangaphandle abadayisi abangakwazi ukuzilawula: izimo zemakethe, amanani okuhlinzeka nokufunwa, izilinganiso ezijwayelekile. Esihlokweni sanamuhla, sizobheka zonke izimbangela zokuphazamiseka.
Izizathu zangaphakathi
Okuqukethwe kwento kungadalwa futhi kuthuthukiswe abathengisi. Lokhu kuncike ngokuphelele kumthengisi kanye nendima yomthengisi ekuqedeni ithonya labo kuhlelo lwabo lokuhweba.
Isimo somzwelo. Isimo sengqondo sosomabhizinisi sibaluleke kakhulu. Phakathi kokunye, izimo umuntu aqhuba ngaphansi kwazo ibhizinisi zingaholela emiphumeleni eyinhlekelele. Uma usomabhizinisi ezizwa ekhathazekile noma ethukuthele, kuzomkhombisa ukukhetha kwakhe. Kodwa ungangizwa kabi: imizwa emihle nayo ayisizi. Injabulo, isasasa, nokulindela okudidekile kungalimaza kakhulu.
Akukho ukuqonda. Abanye abathengisi, abazama ukubalekela ukuqeqeshwa, ngokuvamile bangamarobhothi, abanye bathatha usizo "lwebaphathi bezohwebo", ngokuvamile abakwa-scammers. Abanye bathembele enhlanhleni futhi ngezinye izikhathi benza ibhizinisi, ngaphandle kokuzilungiselela. Akudingeki ukuthi, umqondo wokuhweba njengomdlalo kufanele uphele ngokulahlekelwa. Kumsulwa ukulinda usizo lwabanye. Usomabhizinisi kumele afunde akwenzayo futhi akwazi ukuzimela. Ngaphambi kokwenza uhwebo, kungase kube umqondo omuhle ukucwaninga izikhathi ezingcono kakhulu nezimbi kakhulu ukuze uvule izimpahla ezinhle noma ezimbi. Izinketho ezifanele zingase zisekelwe ekuhlakanipheni, hhayi ukudalelwa.
Akukho ukuphathwa kobungozi. Enye yezimbangela ezinkulu zamashwa isidingo samalungiselelo okuphatha amathuba. Abahwebi babona ukujula kokulahlekelwa ngaphambi kokuvala ibhizinisi labo, benganaki ukusetshenziswa kokuguquguquka nokubeka engozini ibhalansi yonke "yezinto ezithile".
Okulindelwe okukhulu. Abadayisi abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi benza imali eningi. Ngakho, baphuthuma esitolo futhi basigcine ngaphandle kwamarekhodi. Kodwa-ke, ukuhwebelana akuyona into ebalulekile, kodwa into enhle. Izifiso ezingadingekile zibangela izinkinga kuphela, ngakho-ke kungcono ukuthobeka nokuqhubeka nokufunda nokwenza.
Ngaphandle
Konke kwezohwebo kuzimele kumthengisi. Umuntu angaba nesu eliqondile elisebenza kahle futhi njalo lidala ukulahlekelwa ngezikhathi ezithile.
• Imakethe iqhutshwa abantu. Ingabe lokhu kusho ukuthi ingcebo isakhula? Lokho kusho ukuthi baningi abantu abathengayo. Amakhasimende amaningi asho amanani aphezulu kanye nempahla ingakhula ngokushesha. Kodwa kunesikhathi esiningi, abantu abaningi bafuna ukuthenga ngenani eliphezulu futhi bangase bacabange ukuthi sebekutholile, ngethemba lokuthi intengo izokwehla. Bangase bakhethe ukuthengisa. Lapho abantu bethengisa kakhulu, intengo yomhlaba iyancipha futhi intengo yehla.
Lesi isitatimende esijwayelekile, kodwa sibonisa ukuthi ingqondo yomphakathi iyithinta kanjani imakethe futhi le phethini ayincikile kumakhasimende ebhizinisi. Kunzima ukugqama esixukwini futhi ungathonywa imibono yabanye abantu, kodwa abathengisi kudingeka bafunde ukuhlola imakethe futhi bazicabangele bona.
Isiphetho
Ukuze aphule irekhodi elilahlekile, umhwebi kufanele alungele ukuthatha isinyathelo ngokushesha nangokwethembeka. Kubalulekile ukwazi imakethe futhi ufunde ngezimpahla abazihwebayo. Uhlelo lokulawulwa kobungozi kumele lugcinwe ngendlela efanele nengokomoya. Ukululama ekulimaleni kungaba nzima, kodwa amashwa ayingxenye engenakugwemeka yokuvala ukushintshana. Indlela obhekana ngayo nayo nokuthi wenzani ukuyixazulula ibalulekile.
