Kutheni ndihlala ndilahlekelwa endaweni yokuthanda? Xa uthetha ngorhwebo, kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni isivumelwano okanye uluhlu lwezivumelwano lunokungahambi kakuhle kwaye lulimaze umrhwebi. Izinto ezisebenzayo zohlulwe ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Umxholo unokubandakanya ingqondo yomthengisi, ulwazi abalufumanayo, amava abo kunye neendlela. Izinto zangaphandle ezingenakukwazi ukulawula abahwebi: iimeko zemarike, ukubonelela kunye nemilinganiselo yemfuno, uqikelelo oluqhelekileyo. Kwinqaku lanamhlanje, siza kujonga zonke izizathu zokuphazamiseka.
Izizathu zangaphakathi
Umxholo wento unokudalwa kwaye uphuculwe ngabathengisi. Ezi zixhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kumthengisi kunye nendima yomthengisi ekupheliseni impembelelo yabo kwisicwangciso sabo sokurhweba.
Isimo seemvakalelo. Ingqondo yosomashishini ibaluleke kakhulu. Phakathi kwezinye izinto, iimeko umntu aqhuba phantsi kwazo ishishini zinokukhokelela kwimiphumo eyintlekele. Ukuba usomashishini uziva exhalabile okanye enomsindo, iya kubabonisa ukhetho lwabo. Kodwa ungandivi kakubi: iimvakalelo ezilungileyo nazo azincedi. Imincili, imincili, nolindelo olubhidekileyo lunokonakalisa kakhulu.
akukho ukuqonda. Abanye abathengisi, bezama ukubalekela uqeqesho, ngokuqhelekileyo iirobhothi, abanye bathatha uncedo "lwabaphathi bezorhwebo", bahlala be-scammers. Abanye bathembele kwithamsanqa kwaye ngamanye amaxesha benza ishishini, ngaphandle kokulungiselela. Akufuneki ukuthetha, ingcamango yokurhweba njengomdlalo kufuneka iphele kwilahleko. Kunyulu ukulinda uncedo lwabanye. Usomashishini kufuneka afunde into ayenzayo kwaye akwazi ukuzimela. Phambi kokwenza urhwebo, inokuba licebo elilungileyo ukuphanda awona maxesha alungileyo nawona mabi kakhulu wokuvula izinto ezintle okanye ezimbi. Ukhetho olufanelekileyo lusenokusekelwe kubukrelekrele, kungekhona kwilishwa.
Akukho lawulo lomngcipheko. Esinye sezona zizathu zamashwa sisidingo samalungiselelo olawulo lwamathuba. Abahwebi babona ubunzulu belahleko ngaphambi kokuba bavale ishishini labo, bengayinaki ukusetyenziswa kwezinto eziguquguqukayo kunye nomngcipheko webhalansi yonke "yezinto ezithile".
Ulindelo oluphezulu. Abarhwebi abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba benza imali eninzi. Ngoko ke, bakhawuleza baye evenkileni baze bayigcine ngaphandle kweerekhodi. Nangona kunjalo, ukurhweba akuyona into ebalulekileyo, kodwa yinto efanelekileyo. Iminqweno engadingekile ibangela iingxaki kuphela, ngoko ke kungcono ukuthobeka kwaye uqhubeke ufunda nokuziqhelanisa.
Ngaphandle
Yonke into ekurhwebeni izimele kumthengisi. Umntu unokuba nesicwangciso esicacileyo esisebenza kakuhle kwaye uhlala esenza ilahleko ngamaxesha.
• Imarike iqhutywa ngabantu. Ngaba oku kuthetha ukuba ubutyebi busakhula? Oko kuthetha ukuba baninzi abantu abathengayo. Abathengi abaninzi bathetha ukuba amaxabiso aphezulu kunye ne-asethi inokukhula ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa kukho ixesha elininzi, abantu abaninzi bafuna ukuthenga ngexabiso eliphezulu kwaye banokucinga ukuba sele beyifumene, ngethemba lokuba ixabiso liya kuhla. Basenokukhetha ukuthengisa. Okukhona abantu bethengisa, kokukhona lisezantsi ixabiso lomhlaba lize lihle nexabiso.
Le yinkcazo ngokubanzi, kodwa ibonisa indlela ingqondo yoluntu echaphazela ngayo imarike kwaye le pateni ayixhomekeke kubathengi bezoshishino. Kunzima ukuma ngaphandle kwesihlwele kwaye ungaphenjelelwa zizimvo zabanye abantu, kodwa abathengisi kufuneka bafunde ukuvavanya imarike kwaye bacinge ngokwabo.
Ukuqukumbela
Ukuphula irekhodi elilahlekileyo, umrhwebi kufuneka alungele ukwenza ngokukhawuleza nangokuthembeka. Kubalulekile ukwazi imarike kwaye ufunde nge-asethi abarhweba ngayo. Isicwangciso solawulo lomngcipheko kufuneka sigcinwe ngendlela eyiyo neyomoya. Ukuchacha ekonakaleni kunokuba yingxaki, kodwa ilishwa yinxalenye engenakuphepheka yotshintshiselwano lokuvala. Indlela ohlangabezana ngayo nayo kunye nento oyenzayo ukuyisombulula ibalulekile.
